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DMiller 
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 Topic: Cousins Cremains burial set
Posted: 18 Oct 2021 at 6:18pm |
For Wednesday 11:00 in Bethalto IL. She was 74 years of age.
Her friends are accepting my desire to be there as these Cremains are buried so can say my last goodbye, however I may be the ONLY male in the group. I am the location only closest living relative to Mary, the friends that are coming are her lifelong friends from her Lesbian Life. So i will be at a funeral with close to a dozen Aged 70+ year old women that are also Gay and a Minister that is Also Female. Talk of a Square Peg in a round hole!!!
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DougG
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Posted: 18 Oct 2021 at 6:30pm |
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First off , sincere condolences to the family and friends ,, then,,,,Oh WOW !!! This is quite the - perdicament- I have a Tic Tock video Id luv to post - its funny as hell , but dont want to rock the boat
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DMiller
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Posted: 18 Oct 2021 at 6:48pm |
Have to laugh about it, is funny. Man's worst Nightmare, a Dozen Women to one guy ALL Too old for any playtime and Gay as well.
BTW, Thanks for the sentiment.
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Hubert (Ga)engine7
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Posted: 18 Oct 2021 at 7:16pm |
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Condolences to you and her friends. I don't think I would want to be in your predicament. Keep a low profile as best you can and don't hang around too long.
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Just an old country boy saved by the grace of God.
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Ryan Renko
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Posted: 18 Oct 2021 at 7:54pm |
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Bethalto DMiller? Heck I live in Holiday Shores. Don't sweat your predicament. I am extremely glad that times have changed because I have met many gay people that I thought were better examples of caring human beings then some of the righteous church going folks on Sundays. Ryan
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Posted: 18 Oct 2021 at 8:46pm |
Again, my condolences. Have to agree with Ryan. During my days in the field I have met some genuinely decent people. And maybe you can convert some back. Still a chance 
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Posted: 18 Oct 2021 at 9:01pm |
70 is too old for "play time " ??? Dont tell my wife !!
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DMiller
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Posted: 19 Oct 2021 at 4:47am |
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Yeah Ryan, Rose Lawn, N of the Airport. Front Section, between E and W Entry points. Grand Parents and Grandmother's Sis with her Husband on Dad's side at E Entry, Final Plots, Great Grandmother with two of her sibs at W Entry plot 10, this burial at Plot 90 roughly center. Great Grand Father Dad's Side is buried in Moro north of there with two of his boys, remainder of his side are buried here in & outside of Owensville MO. Havelka (Hovakey) was the family name. All of Mom's side and my parents with one brother are buried in Wilburton Township W of St. Peter IL.
Edited by DMiller - 19 Oct 2021 at 4:48am
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nella(Pa)
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Posted: 19 Oct 2021 at 6:23am |
You sleep with the dogs your gonna get fleas!
Your'e judged by the company you keep!
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Walker
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Posted: 19 Oct 2021 at 11:45am |
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You may want to put up some SPLITLIKKERS with an arrow signs leading the way to the cemetery.
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JW in MO
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Posted: 19 Oct 2021 at 1:38pm |
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Sorry for your loss and it's respectful to go to funeral, doesn't have anything to do with condoning anything. I've ignored a wedding invite, didn't make a big deal out of it. As for bad church goers, there a plenty, but there's plenty more that don't will treat you worse. I figure it's better to be in a pew on Sunday than sitting on my porch judging those that do.
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Hubert (Ga)engine7
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Posted: 19 Oct 2021 at 6:24pm |
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The religious church people are the ones that had Jesus nailed to the cross. Ignore the bad churchgoers and focus on Christ.
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Posted: 20 Oct 2021 at 6:59am |
 Hubert (Ga)engine7 wrote:
The religious church people are the ones that had Jesus nailed to the cross. Ignore the bad churchgoers and focus on Christ. |
Yep. Proof that we are ALL sinners, church goers and not. I gotta admit, it does make it hard to focus sometimes though. 
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DMiller
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Posted: 20 Oct 2021 at 5:43pm |
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Arrived early, spent some time at Grands grave and Great Grandmother's with her sibs and a Great Uncle and Aunt sis to my Grand Mother. Went off well, the older women arrived with their Life Partners, many of which together over 40 years ALL were friendly and welcoming. One gay Male couple arrived and one late 20s young man my cousin had aided at a sheltered workshop some years ago to pay his respects. Just at a dozen, twenty minutes with a Female Minister and all was complete, I came home.
Edited by DMiller - 20 Oct 2021 at 5:44pm
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