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 Well, Dave,,,If talking about this with your friends and SUPPORTERS helps you get this off your chest,,,just you go right ahead and do so,,! I love listening to friends cause truth be known,,,most generally,,I find that I feel better after expressing my hurts, and listenin to Their hurts,, and I can really feel the other person's hurts as well. Either way,,,you go right ahead and get it off your chest and help heal your Heart,,,,!!!
 Like others have said,,you got many years  put up on this marriage and not easy to look the other way. Your Wife reaLLy and truly needs your help and support at this time of her life,,even tho,I know there are times when they can be almost impossible to get along with,,,The Husband IS the dominant person in the family and we have to be strong enough to help BOTH of you. A person is so helpless when suffering from depression and the hurt can be so devastating and long term..
 I'm telling you all this because I too have this same pain in the heart that wants to let go and walk but I also know if you did so,,you would always feel an even greater hurt for having done so. And,,,and,,that hurt would last a lot longer that you would want it to.
 PEACE BE WITH YOU, Dave,,and don't hesitate to post more of  them long winded posts,,,,,, THAT WAY all these fine folks here won't be able to say ole Joe always postin them dang long winded posts,,,,,,         

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desertjoe Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Orange Level Access Joined: 23 Sep 2013 Location: New mexico Points: 13692	Post Options Post Reply Quote desertjoe Report Post Thanks(1) Quote Reply Posted: 09 Jun 2020 at 10:00am
	Well, Dave,,,If talking about this with your friends and SUPPORTERS helps you get this off your chest,,,just you go right ahead and do so,,! I love listening to friends cause truth be known,,,most generally,,I find that I feel better after expressing my hurts, and listenin to Their hurts,, and I can really feel the other person's hurts as well. Either way,,,you go right ahead and get it off your chest and help heal your Heart,,,,!!! Like others have said,,you got many years put up on this marriage and not easy to look the other way. Your Wife reaLLy and truly needs your help and support at this time of her life,,even tho,I know there are times when they can be almost impossible to get along with,,,The Husband IS the dominant person in the family and we have to be strong enough to help BOTH of you. A person is so helpless when suffering from depression and the hurt can be so devastating and long term.. I'm telling you all this because I too have this same pain in the heart that wants to let go and walk but I also know if you did so,,you would always feel an even greater hurt for having done so. And,,,and,,that hurt would last a lot longer that you would want it to. PEACE BE WITH YOU, Dave,,and don't hesitate to post more of them long winded posts,,,,,, THAT WAY all these fine folks here won't be able to say ole Joe always postin them dang long winded posts,,,,,,

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GARY(OH/IN) Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Orange Level Joined: 19 May 2010 Location: Findlay,Ohio Points: 917	Post Options Post Reply Quote GARY(OH/IN) Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 09 Jun 2020 at 12:39pm
	Klinemar, you must have misread my post. Maybe you forgot who was venting, saw my name and now I've been tossed in with the forelorn. I'm the guy that said a divorce is a wonderful thing when you need one. I had one in 1993 after 26 years of wedded aggravation. Remarried in 1997 and still am. If you have really had all you can tolerate do something. I have plenty to say here but don't care to go on and on as if you can't think for yourselves.

chaskaduo Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Orange Level Joined: 26 Nov 2016 Location: Twin Cities Points: 5200	Post Options Post Reply Quote chaskaduo Report Post Thanks(1) Quote Reply Posted: 09 Jun 2020 at 2:29pm
	Gary I didn't get the impression you were forlorn or tossed into, and I picked up that Klinemar was addressing Dave. I'm divorced, never remarried, and happy as a heck. We are just trying to support Dave, and not that you weren't, sometime you do have to move on, I did and you did. Dave will sort it out.
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DMiller Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Orange Level Access Joined: 14 Sep 2009 Location: Hermann, Mo Points: 33857	Post Options Post Reply Quote DMiller Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 10 Jun 2020 at 5:22pm
	I did leave once already, twenty years ago for three months. She did not do so well on her own against a poor choice of wording. Had to move for my work, from $20something an hour to boost over $36 with better benefits but a requirement was be within an hour of work when HOME. She flatly chose to NOT move I said alright packed necessities told her would be back for the rest later. Little over 7 weeks she was calling, sending notes, asking then pleading to not have to move and told her she didn't I would and she could deal with life on her own, four more weeks and she said OK. We spoke, agreed to a benefit to both and moved in a month.