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Topic: Sad news from Desert Joe
Posted By: Thad in AR.
Subject: Sad news from Desert Joe
Date Posted: 19 Aug 2021 at 4:57pm
I just received a message that Joyce passed away at noon today.
Please lift him and the boys up in prayer. He said he will call me in a couple days.
Joe if you happen to see this, prayers are sent from Jenny and I.



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Posted By: plummerscarin
Date Posted: 19 Aug 2021 at 5:21pm
So sorry for your loss Joe. Prayers from iowa


Posted By: JoeM(GA)
Date Posted: 19 Aug 2021 at 5:23pm
lifting them all up in prayer here in Georgia, so, so sorry Joe!


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Allis Express North Georgia
41 WC,48 UC Cane,7-G's,
Ford 345C TLB


Posted By: steve(ill)
Date Posted: 19 Aug 2021 at 5:40pm
Im so sorry for your loss Joe....Hope things go OK for you and the boys.

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Like them all, but love the "B"s.


Posted By: klinemar
Date Posted: 19 Aug 2021 at 5:40pm
So sorry for your loss Joe. Family and you are in our thoughts.


Posted By: DougG
Date Posted: 19 Aug 2021 at 5:45pm
Deepest sympathies,,, so sorry for your loss - with me I could see my wife passing away, thought I was strong , but I wasnt - please talk to people , dont isolate yourself,, 


Posted By: Tracy Martin TN
Date Posted: 19 Aug 2021 at 6:15pm
Prayers from TN. God Bless!


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No greater gift than healthy grandkids!


Posted By: Bob D. (La)
Date Posted: 19 Aug 2021 at 6:59pm
Prayers from Louisiana. Joe, It won't stop the heartache you are suffering, but know that Joyce is no longer suffering. God Bless.

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When you find yourself in a hole,PUT DOWN THE SHOVEL!!!


Posted By: TomC
Date Posted: 19 Aug 2021 at 7:30pm
Prayers from Missouri,


Posted By: Tbone95
Date Posted: 19 Aug 2021 at 7:33pm
Aw man, that’s sad. So sorry joe. For some reason I strongly wondered about her yesterday. Best wishes my friend. Prayers.


Posted By: FloydKS
Date Posted: 19 Aug 2021 at 7:49pm
prayers from Kansas, ditto what the guys say, condolences and strength...


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Holding a grudge is like taking poison and expecting the other person to die


Posted By: JTOOL
Date Posted: 19 Aug 2021 at 8:03pm
So sorry for your loss Joe. Prayers from Missouri.


Posted By: Stan IL&TN
Date Posted: 19 Aug 2021 at 8:03pm
I'm so sorry Joe. Prayers for you and the family. God bless.

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1957 WD45 dad's first AC

1968 one-seventy

1956 F40 Ferguson


Posted By: shameless dude
Date Posted: 19 Aug 2021 at 8:12pm
to my good buddy Joe...i'm so sorry to hear about the passing of your bride. Joyce loved you alot and i know you loved her. she won't be hurting anymore, tho i know you and the kids will be. you all are in Dee and myselfs thoughts and prayers. call me if you need a shoulder or just a good cry! we both love you alot. 


Posted By: shameless dude
Date Posted: 19 Aug 2021 at 8:13pm
thanks for letting us know Thad


Posted By: Coke-in-MN
Date Posted: 19 Aug 2021 at 8:42pm
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4cHv-PE561A%20" rel="nofollow - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4cHv-PE561A

If You Only Knew. By the Rochester Family



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Faith isn't a jump in the dark. It is a walk in the light. Faith is not guessing; it is knowing something.


Posted By: LouSWPA
Date Posted: 19 Aug 2021 at 9:47pm
Joe, not much I can say, but my prayers are with you, and you family, my friend

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I am still confident of this;
I will see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living.
Wait for the Lord;
be strong and take heart and wait for the Lord. Ps 27


Posted By: JohnColo
Date Posted: 19 Aug 2021 at 11:54pm
I'm sorry to hear the bad news.  Glad Joe has kept in touch with you, Thad.  I hope he will join us at some time, I'm sure he knows how much we miss him.


Posted By: JC(WI)
Date Posted: 20 Aug 2021 at 1:12am
Joe Rivera and family, our condolences for the loss of wife and mother.
 Joe, we are thinking of you my friend, and if you feel you need to talk,  phone is on 24-7.


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He who says there is no evil has already deceived himself
The truth is the truth, sugar coated or not. Trawler II says, "Remember that."


Posted By: DMiller
Date Posted: 20 Aug 2021 at 3:29am
So sad to hear, prayers lifted here to the family


Posted By: fixer1958
Date Posted: 20 Aug 2021 at 6:56am
So sorry to hear that Joe. Are thoughts are with you.


Posted By: tadams(OH)
Date Posted: 20 Aug 2021 at 8:01am
  Prayers for Joe and his family, we a here for you Joe.


Posted By: Brian F(IL)
Date Posted: 20 Aug 2021 at 8:09am
Prayers from Illinois for peace and strength in this difficult time.  Trust in Him.


Posted By: ACinSC
Date Posted: 20 Aug 2021 at 8:12am
Prayers from SC for Joe and his family


Posted By: Michael V (NM)
Date Posted: 20 Aug 2021 at 11:05am
prayers and condolences for you and family from your northern NM buddy


Posted By: ihc pickups
Date Posted: 20 Aug 2021 at 12:53pm
Prayers for Joe and family.

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Mike


Posted By: Ray54
Date Posted: 20 Aug 2021 at 2:11pm
Prayers for you and your family.


Posted By: Ted J
Date Posted: 23 Aug 2021 at 12:26pm
Prayers go out to the family from here in Wisconsin.
Joe, I am so sorry to hear this news.  But, it is a relief for her now, she is no longer in pain and sitting with the Lord.
I hope you are well and even though you knew it was coming, it is hard to bear up under it all.  
I pray you'll find peace in these hard times and if you need a friend to talk to......
Those of us who really care miss you greatly and want you back in the worst way!
Come join us in the near future, please!!
You are loved and even though we have never met, I feel like you are a brother.

PS....in case you do see this, I left you a PM.


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"Allis-Express"
19?? WC / 1941 C / 1952 CA / 1956 WD45 / 1957 WD45 / 1958 D-17


Posted By: HD6GTOM
Date Posted: 23 Aug 2021 at 7:47pm
Prayers from here too.


Posted By: Hubert (Ga)engine7
Date Posted: 23 Aug 2021 at 8:08pm
Sad to see this piece of news. Joe, my heart goes out to you in your time of loss. Listen close to the works of the song to which Coke posted the link. There is a great message there. You and your family will be in my prayers.

Thad, thank you for posting this. I haven't been on the Forum for a while and just saw it a few minutes ago.


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Just an old country boy saved by the grace of God.


Posted By: Pat the Plumber CIL
Date Posted: 25 Aug 2021 at 12:06pm
So sorry to hear of this. I will keep Joe and his family in my thoughts and prayers.

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You only need to know 3 things to be a plumber;Crap rolls down hill,Hot is on the left and Don't bite your fingernails

1964 D-17 SIV 3 Pt.WF,1964 D-15 Ser II 3pt.WF ,1960 D-17 SI NF,1956 WD 45 WF.


Posted By: Dorix
Date Posted: 25 Aug 2021 at 8:15pm
  My condolences as well.


Posted By: desertjoe
Date Posted: 27 Aug 2021 at 5:44am

 Well, Friends,,I'm sitting here at 3:40 in the morning, wondering what's next for me. All the great and caring folks here that called or expressed their concerns on the loss of my wife of 53 years., I want to express MY heartfelt THANKS for your concerns. Like I told JC, I had misplaced my little white book with all my passwords, so I could not sign on to thank every one of you all, altho, I'm grateful that Darren has the site fixed to allow me to "look in" and kinda keep up with the goings on altho I could not post after being gone so long. and I Thank him,,,,,
 My world is different now that she is gone and I expect I'm gonna have to adapt to life on my own. My heart hurts so much because we shared so much all those years. I don't like that I would get mad at her for not going to Dialysis, but now I realize how much losing her right foot affected her and recent health issues almost assured she was soon going to lose her other foot as well.
 I have a lot of financial stuff that I am going to have to take care of with all the hospitals and Doctors, Specialists that cared for her all those years.  She was the family secretary for many years and she saved EveryThing! In my initial cleaning of our dressers, I'm finding lots of OLD receipts and a lot of them have mine or her SS number and some also have our bank account number even with routing number,,,,what a haven for the scammers of today,,!! Guess I'm gonna have to get a burn barrel as our bank does not have the big shredders for everything I got to get rid of.
 I hope to get back on here and BS with all of ya'll again when I get all done with what needs to be done. Thank you for listening.


Posted By: JoeM(GA)
Date Posted: 27 Aug 2021 at 6:13am
From one Joe to another, you will stay in our thoughts and prayers in the coming times, we’re all here for you

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Allis Express North Georgia
41 WC,48 UC Cane,7-G's,
Ford 345C TLB


Posted By: TomC
Date Posted: 27 Aug 2021 at 6:14am
There are not words or enough of them to ease your grief, just know there are a bunch of us out here you can lean on when need be. Our thoughts & prayers from Hillsboro Missouri.


Posted By: Thad in AR.
Date Posted: 27 Aug 2021 at 6:33am
Joe My dear friend, prayers will continue for you.
I wish I could help in some way.
Call if you need anything or just to vent.


Posted By: fixer1958
Date Posted: 27 Aug 2021 at 7:59am
Good to hear from you Joe. 


Posted By: tadams(OH)
Date Posted: 27 Aug 2021 at 8:15am
Great to hear from you Joe.
We are here if and when you need to share and let off steam.
Continued prayers for you and your family.


Posted By: Steve in NJ
Date Posted: 27 Aug 2021 at 10:42am
Joe, so sorry to hear of your loss. Prayers from New Jersey for you and your family in these tough times.  All your pals here are with ya buddy!!
Steve@B&B


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39'RC, 43'WC, 48'B, 49'G, 50'WF, 65 Big 10, 67'B-110, 75'716H, 2-620's, & a Motorhead wife


Posted By: Dick L
Date Posted: 27 Aug 2021 at 10:58am
Sorry to hear this Joe! You have our sympathy.


Posted By: Brian Jasper co. Ia
Date Posted: 29 Aug 2021 at 8:41pm
Sorry to hear that you lost your life partner and soul mate. Prayers from central Iowa 🙏🏻

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"Any man who thinks he can be happy and prosperous by letting the government take care of him better take a closer look at the American Indian." Henry Ford


Posted By: shameless dude
Date Posted: 30 Aug 2021 at 11:21pm
glad to see you back on here you snake breeder! as soon as i can figger out my new phone...i'll call you!


Posted By: NDBirdman
Date Posted: 01 Sep 2021 at 3:53pm
Condolences, sorry to hear this.


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1955 WD45 S#205467, 190XT #6652 DXT


Posted By: Ted J
Date Posted: 02 Sep 2021 at 6:48pm
I'm SO so sorry for your loss Joe. Your entire family are in my thoughts and prayers....

You should be on here now so we can help share with your grief.  You SHOULD be here with all your great friends so we can console and converse with you.  Losing such a special lady and soul mate is something that is hard enough on yourself, so you need to let us help with the grieving process.
I better shut my big yap before I have both of us in tears..........  Git yer butt back here QUICK so's we can start pickin on you agin...an bring some recipes with!!

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"Allis-Express"
19?? WC / 1941 C / 1952 CA / 1956 WD45 / 1957 WD45 / 1958 D-17


Posted By: desertjoe
Date Posted: 18 Sep 2021 at 8:29pm

 GOSH,,,,what a great and caring bunch of fellars for all your kind words that mean so much to this old boy,,,,I just been kinda moping around and not getting much done and I know I gotta get on with life,,,cause I know that is what she would of wanted me to do.
 I started out cleaning her dressers and kept finding stuff that brought back too many memories so,,I'll get back to that some later,,chit,,I been sleeping in the den for the last 2 1/2 years so what can be the hurry now?? They came and picked up the hospital bed that Medicare supplied and the room looks so dang empty!!! I had taken out the King size bed when she had to have a hospital bed,,,but I ain't putting that big old thing back in there,,,,Guess I'll settle for a queen size cause a full is too small,,,,
  This coming Tuesday, Jon and I are flying to North Dakota to take her back to her homeland to be buried next to her Mother. That was what she wanted so that's what I'm gonna do for her.
 I hope to get my chit together and start checkin in with all you GREAT  guys,,,I need somebody to shoot the chit with besides them two yorkies,,,,we gots a regular menagerie here anymore,,,we gots 4 dogs,  8 cats in the garage, 3 chickies and two ducks,,,,,
 I love ALL OF YA'LL,,,,,,


Posted By: JohnColo
Date Posted: 18 Sep 2021 at 10:33pm
It's great to hear from you again Joe.  I know the crew was worried about you but since we all live so far from each other (mostly), its not easy to be there in person when a guy needs more then kind words and thoughts.  You just take your time on getting back to the forum, you know we will do our best to give you a bit of a hard time when we feel you are ready for it.  (I'll try to keep Mr. Shameless in check!)


Posted By: fixer1958
Date Posted: 19 Sep 2021 at 5:22am
Good to hear from you Joe


Posted By: Joe Goodwill
Date Posted: 19 Sep 2021 at 6:45am
Hey Joe, good to see your name again. Keep going one day at a time, lay her to rest, deal with business and keep communication open to friends whoever they may be. I have lost a wife, father and recently mother but it’s still a beautiful world out there if we look for it. Take care.
Another Joe from up North


Posted By: orangeman
Date Posted: 19 Sep 2021 at 11:05am
Joe:  Please accept our condolences on the loss of your wife.   May you find some small measure of peace at this most difficult time. 

Respectfully - Orangeman


Posted By: JTOOL
Date Posted: 19 Sep 2021 at 11:12am
@desertjoe; Continued prayers from Western Missouri. God bless you brother.


Posted By: Thad in AR.
Date Posted: 19 Sep 2021 at 12:53pm
Good to see you back on here. Also enjoyed the visit the other day. Look forward to the next.


Posted By: dr p
Date Posted: 19 Sep 2021 at 7:56pm
Good to see you back. One day at a time.


Posted By: Sugarmaker
Date Posted: 20 Sep 2021 at 7:14am
Joe,
 Thinking of you and your family today. Our condolences.
Regards,
 Chris


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D17 1958 (NFE), WD45 1954 (NFE), WD 1952 (NFE), WD 1950 (WFE), Allis F-40 forklift, Ford Jubilee, Many IH Cub Cadets, 32 Ford Dump.


Posted By: farmboy520
Date Posted: 20 Sep 2021 at 8:12am
Sorry for your loss Joe. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

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On the farm: Agco Allis 9695, 7060, 7010, R62, Farmall H, and Farmall F20 (Great Grandpa's)


Posted By: tadams(OH)
Date Posted: 20 Sep 2021 at 9:50am
   Joe sure is great to hear from you. Prayers for a safe trip and for the family for your loss. Hope you get your spirits up and can start working on your stuff again.  Tom


Posted By: JC(WI)
Date Posted: 20 Sep 2021 at 7:13pm
Well Joe, you and John have a great flight up tomorrow, and back too.
   May Peace and Comfort be with you all when Joyce is laid to rest.

  and lets see some progress on ol' RED when you get back home!  Wink


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He who says there is no evil has already deceived himself
The truth is the truth, sugar coated or not. Trawler II says, "Remember that."


Posted By: desertjoe
Date Posted: 25 Sep 2021 at 1:23am

 Well,Fellars,,,I am astounded at the love and concerns from a great many of youse guys, in trying to get me out of my doldrums,,,,I just cannot help myself as I get to doing something and some little thing or object reminds me of something we did or something I think I should of done for her,,,I'm getting better at accepting the ways that life works out and I also know the pain and heartbreak will be with me until I learn to accept Life's trials. I went to the Football game tonight with our youngest son, Jamie and I let myself get all chocked up when I realized that she is not going to be able to watch any more games as that was one of her favorite past times.
 Jon and I got back from Nort Dakota this morning at 2:30 AM, after a long day running from concourse to concourse especially in the brand new airport in Denver. We left the house Monday morning at 2:30 AM , and drove to El Paso, Texas to catch a 8 AM flight to Denver. When we got to Denver, we were told that the arrival desk had been changed and was now on the OTHER side of the frigging airport!! WE were told that time was of the essence and if you had any concerns as to your ability of walking that far, United had arranged for personal carts to make sure you did not miss your connecting flight,m,,, Well, Jon is 6' 2" tall and gots them LONG legs and I was having to take two steps to his one and after just 20 minutes of that chit, I had to put my carry on bag on his suitcase with wheels so he could pull it. I had the Urn so that made it very heavy. It took us 33 minutes of fast walking and did not even have a chance to get a soft drink before they started boarding our flight to Minot, Nd,,,then it gets worse from here,,,,
 When we get to Minot at 11:30 PM,,,we find out the reservation for  our rental car had been given to somebody on the previous flight,,!!!! You talk bout a couple of very mad and upset fellars from New Mexico,,,!!! Next thing we hear is that the airport is fixing to close at 12:30 AM,,and Belcourt is a 2 hour drive from Minot. The Rosary is scheduled for the following day at 9 Am with the Mass to start at 10:00, so the Urn has to be at the Church by 8AM,!! We called every taxi in Minot but they either would not answer their phone or refused to take us to Belcourt (2 hour drive and now it's after Midnight)
 Jon finally gets a Uber that agrees to take us halfway to Rugby,,,he wants "Only $100) to take us halfway, So, I decide to call my wife's Godmother, who had been taking care of all the arrangements in Belcourt and they were already asleep. I told her I had no way to get her Godchild to the services by 8 AM cause it was a LONG walk......
 The Uber guy heard the conversation and finally offered to take us all the way to Belcourt for the $100,,,Him and Jon reached an agreement on payment and we took off,,by now it is 12:45 AM, So I call her Godmother and tell her to go back to sleep cause we got a ride,,,,,,She had made reservations for us at the Casino in Belcourt, so at least that reservation was honored. We pulled into the Casino at 3AM, checked in and HAD to get up at 6AM to get the Urn to the church at 8:Am. After the 10:00 Mass, we then went with her Godmother to the cemetary, then they took us to eat and kinda chauferred us around town meeting up with her relatives. We were scheduled to fly out of Minot the following day, so things went along pretty fast from there.
 Some of her Aunts and Uncles asked me if I was ever going to go visit them again,,and THAT made me think bout what I had just done, So I assured them that I wanted to come visit my life long partner and Jon agreed to go as well. We were rushed to make reservations on short notice and those are very expensive but good planning and good reservations far enough in advance are quite affordable.
   more at another time,,,,


Posted By: DMiller
Date Posted: 25 Sep 2021 at 7:22am
My Uncle(Dad's Brother) passed this last year, ripe old age of 94, long fruitful life.  Passed in Cd'A Idaho and is interred there.  The family wanted no heavy volume of visitors, held a small service much as my parents had made the move for as they got older, all three were Cremated and ashes placed in small containers not even a special Urn.  The services brief, no one will be buried aside him, he was not buried by his daughter in Anchorage either where she is the only one of the family buried there, his current wife is to be buried by her parents site in MT when she passes and is already moving there as we speak.  Uncle's previous wives with children of his are buried in AZ & MO, eldest Child is in St Louis, plans on Burial near her Mom.  Eldest of Second wife to be cremated and remains scattered offshore AK.  My instructions are cremation and scattering of ashes as can locate a place to do so, have bought a plot near my older brother where have no intention of ever being used.

My cousins are Later Day Saints, (Mormon), they fully understand the body is not where their departed are, that the spirit has moved on to a higher place and are actually always around us every where everyday.

Prayers you can manage well in these days Joe.


Posted By: structures
Date Posted: 25 Sep 2021 at 7:50am
Sorry for your loss Joe.  

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http://www.allischalmers.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=82702&KW=structures&title=structures-1964-allis-d15-series-ii" rel="nofollow - 1964 D15 Series II


Posted By: Tbone95
Date Posted: 25 Sep 2021 at 8:10am
Joe, you keep on keeping on my friend. Sounds like quite the trip! Have a great day.


Posted By: tadams(OH)
Date Posted: 25 Sep 2021 at 8:44am
  Keep in touch Joe we miss your visits.
  I got a phone call yesterday morning from I thought was a friend, I was shaving and didn't catch the call. When I call him back his wife answered the phone and told me it was her that had called and that he had passed away over night. The last time I talked to him he was making plans for his wife's 80th birthday for today, Saturday, her birthday is acually Sunday. Today on Facebook his stepdaughter posted that they were still having the birthday party in his honor.


Posted By: Tbone95
Date Posted: 25 Sep 2021 at 11:41am
Guys, even though most of this crowd is of the …”older” variety, truth is no matter your age, you never know when your last day is, when your last chance to tell someone you love them is, when the last opportunity to apologize passes.

Prayers for all of you to live in peace and happiness, and to find the peace and comfort to move forward from our losses. Our loved ones would want us to be happy. You can be happy and still never forget.


Posted By: DMiller
Date Posted: 25 Sep 2021 at 3:01pm
Can agree on that tbone, most days ache everywhere, today is no exception doing a little carpentry work for a friend.  Mom went to bed with a random sore shoulder, never woke back up, 64 and two months from retiring.

Any hour of any day of any week, month, year will be our last, enjoy the time we are allowed in this plain with those we can touch, laugh and be with, time is so fleeting.


Posted By: desertjoe
Date Posted: 26 Sep 2021 at 5:34am

  Any hour of any day of any week, month, year will be our last, enjoy the time we are allowed in this plain with those we can touch, laugh and be with, time is so fleeting.

 So very true words of wisdom by DMiller!! Everyone on here that truly LOVES your partner, your family members and even your friends should let bygones be bygones with those you care about because when they gone,,it's too late to convey your feelings as several have so eloquently stated. I DO lament that I was too steadfast with trying to protect her by insisting that she go to Dialysis as required and also sometimes depriving her of her favorite foods,,,foods that were the cause of her Diabetes. Two ways to approach that were to acknowledge and ACCEPT the fact that she was ESRD and the end was inevitable and allow her to have what she wanted so she could pass without her dang old Husband being so danged strict! I wanted to keep her as long as possible,,yet,, I now tell myself,,maybe I should of made things easier for her,,,,? Her best lifelong friend told me that they shared many things, like women do,,and they would have a laugh about her Oxygen tube that I would find it off her nose more so than it on. She told her friend,,"That Joe, he worries so much about the oxygen tube coming off,,but he doesn't know,,I pull it off as soon as he leaves the room" ,,,,WOMEN,,,!! LOL,,,
 I like TBone's quote that you can have fun and still love your departed and I do know that is what she would have wanted as she was that type of person. She would always fuss with me looking my very best when I had an important meeting with upper management at work and the annual company parties. She was that type of person.
 I feel like I have dragged my inner thoughts out too long and I apologize. Many, many THANK YOU'S for listening to this old man and since I have always been the type of person that would rather help people laugh and enjoy life,,,I hope to restart that phase of my life. Thank you for listening,,,,,


Posted By: Thad in AR.
Date Posted: 26 Sep 2021 at 6:18am
Thank you for sharing


Posted By: plummerscarin
Date Posted: 26 Sep 2021 at 6:22am
Thanks for opening up your thoughts. I think there is good advice in there for us


Posted By: fixer1958
Date Posted: 26 Sep 2021 at 7:56am
I know how my mom felt when my dad was sick. My wife and I helped a good number of years. Got him to dialysis when my mom had to take a break. It was tough, I don't see how she did it really. 55 years of marriage when he passed and she was devastated. I was relieved for both of them. She's still kicking at 95.

Mother in law had cancer 3 times and what they went through. You have to wonder about the quality of life and what is endured. Worth it or not? Big question.

I myself am stage 3 melanoma and have had bone cancer over the last 20 years. So.. if something decided to rear it's ugly head again what's the call going to be? I know what it would be at this moment but what would it be at crunch time? What are you going to do then kick yourself in the ass because you think you could have done it differently. 
Just do the best you can and call it good, can't ask any more.

  



Posted By: Thad in AR.
Date Posted: 26 Sep 2021 at 8:13am
Ask the Lords help in all things. He knows and sees all.
My prayers go to heal all the pain of each of you have to endure.
Joe I’m here if you need me.


Posted By: ACinSC
Date Posted: 26 Sep 2021 at 11:21am
Thoughts and prayers from South Carolina .


Posted By: Hubert (Ga)engine7
Date Posted: 27 Sep 2021 at 6:13am
Amen to what Thad said. 

Joe, out of love you did the best that you knew how to do at the time and you can take comfort in that.

Here is a quote a friend sent me a few days back:

“Grief, I've learned, is really just love. It's all the love you want to give, but cannot. All of that unspent love gathers in the corners of your eyes, the lump in your throat, and in the hollow part of your chest. Grief is just love with no place to go.”

Jamie Anderson 




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Just an old country boy saved by the grace of God.


Posted By: Ted J
Date Posted: 28 Sep 2021 at 12:14am
Hubert, as I sit here reading this, with tears in the corners of my eyes, I fell SO close to ALL of youse guys.  I've said it before and I'll say it again, this is ONE BIG GREAT FAMILY!!  The outpouring of friendship and love is what makes this the greatest forum on the net!  Thank you!

Joe, this should help you, what Hubert wrote, as you were doing EVERYTHING for her.  Don't feel ashamed or bad for that.  I did the same thing for my Mother.  She just told me that she knows it is how I am and about caring and love for her, but she says that I worry too much and should just let her do what SHE WANTS.... like not eating.  I keep telling her she has to, but she insists she doesn't want to, that she's not hungry.

You did everything for Joyce out of love and respect.  That's the best anyone can do.  I'll bet 'Ole Red' against my favorite CA that she's smiling down on ALL of us and laughing at how we're carrying on.  Try to guess HOW MUCH she loved YOU!!

It's GREAT having you back on here and I'll be shootin the breeze wit ya too when I can.  Heck, we'all NEED you to keep that prez of the "Misfits" in line!!  I know it's a handful, but you've done pretty good all this while.

God Bless and keep you in ALL the days ahead an 'be seein' you...dear friend.  (an you think YOU carry on....)LOL


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"Allis-Express"
19?? WC / 1941 C / 1952 CA / 1956 WD45 / 1957 WD45 / 1958 D-17


Posted By: JTOOL
Date Posted: 28 Sep 2021 at 9:52pm
@desertjoe; You have nothing to apologize for my man. You drag your inner thoughts out as much as you need to. Okay? You and your family are still in my prayers.


Posted By: desertjoe
Date Posted: 29 Sep 2021 at 9:21pm

 Well,,Friends,,,I took a first step forward today,,,a kind of a small one but a step forward none the less. I had been dtreading on gathering up all her clothes and bagging some of them to give to the Hospital Auxilary up in Roswell. Reason being is,,I did not want to meet a local woman wearing some of her clothing so to the Alien Town I took them. Took two big bags of shoes, a big box of Jammies and 4 bags of socks,,,,and that was just out of her dressers,,,Chit,,I ain't even got to her closet yet. I called the Chamber Of Commerce in Roswell and they suggested instead of the local Salvation Army, that I take the clothes to a new charity that is 100% volunteer and all the profits go to underage needy children. I just barely got there as they were closing and two of the nicest ladies were SO PLEASED with everything I gave em even offered to give me a notarized paper for tax purposes,,,,sure makes one feel good,,,!! They were even more skittished when I told em I would be back in a couple of days with another load,,they both High Fived me,,,,imagine,,,,!! Kinda bothered me at first to give her clothes away but for a good cause,,she would of liked that,,!!


Posted By: JC(WI)
Date Posted: 29 Sep 2021 at 9:39pm
Good thing I didn't give you a call this morning, It would have set you back from meeting them fine wimen... Wink
  Glad it felt good to you to do that.
 My grand-nephew got married last Saturday and I gave him a Silver dollar from his great grandparents wedding and I gave him the wedding band from his great-great-grandfather that he wore.  I told him his great grandmother would have wanted him to have those things , because she loved him so much.  Shucks, I didn't know giving those items to him would create a dang river.  Think he was wiping his face till his and his beloved's own wedding started, and then down to business at hand, getting down to business of getting his life started with a wife.  


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Posted By: tadams(OH)
Date Posted: 30 Sep 2021 at 12:20pm
   Makes you feel goodwhen you know what you gave them will go tosomeone in need instead of Goodwill onwer getting richer.


Posted By: desertjoe
Date Posted: 03 Oct 2021 at 7:09am

 I AGAIN want to personally THANK each and everyone of you GREAT FOLKS that have become some of my best FRIENDS during this most trying time.. Your calls and posts have been a blessing and have not allowed me to sink into that place nobody wants to go or live in. Trying to get back to my old self,,,special THANKS to Shameless, JC, Wayne180 and Thad,,cause they just would not let me go to that place.


Posted By: fixer1958
Date Posted: 03 Oct 2021 at 7:41am
Good to hear from you Joe.
Missed you not being on here.


Posted By: shameless dude
Date Posted: 04 Oct 2021 at 2:14am
Joe....if'n you stay on the straight and narrow, you'll be right in the good standing of all us other mis-fits! lol...i'm glad to see/hear you getting out some, keep busy...it'll help pass the time. i'll call you when i finds my danged phone...if i don't find it...guess i'll hafta use the old lady's....ooooops....i mean the loving wifes! 



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